Tuesday, December 2, 2014

To Have and Not to Hold

When babies are born in Thailand (all babies) they are quickly placed in an incubator and whisked away to a nursery area.  The parents get a minute or two with the child while in the incubator and then only through a couple of panes of glass for the first day.  I got to see Gus through the glass, but sadly wasn’t able to hold him or touch him. 

Day two of life, babies are able to be held and fed (only twice) by their parents.  These restrictions are to help prevent germs and disease from getting to the babies.  So I dutifully went to the hospital yesterday to do my two feedings.  11:00 and 2:00.  That is all you get! About 30 minutes each.  Today was the same:  two feedings (11:00 and 2:00).


I appreciate the care for my son.  I appreciate the concern for his health.  I understand the lack of immune system he currently has.  I acknowledge the hospitals know what they are doing.  But today, I just want to hold him.  All day long. 


(Written nov 28)

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